Cheap but Sexy Valentines Day Ideas

It is a cliché but it really is the thought that counts - by spending less on a gift you are actually giving more. These three ideas are for cheap but extremely sexy valentines day ideas.

To just pop into Amazon and click out a few expensive gifts doesn't take much effort. On the other hand a thoughtful gift that is completely individual really does show the person receiving it that you have thought about them, you know them and you value them.

A single item is always a better gift than several.

These three valentines ideas are explained in more details below. All of them are very thoughtful and will take preparation. Sexy valentines ideas one and three are the most obviously sexy valentines ideas but the second one should still hit the mark.

1. Love Coupons
   
2. Handmade Chocolate
3. A Strip Tease
   

As you can see form the books of love coupons sold above - they are not expensive to buy.

But this is not about saving money this is about giving the most thoughtful, most romantic gift to your lover. In case you don't know what they are, a Love Coupon is a coupon that can be exchanged for a service.

Here is what you do:

1. Buy a receipt book with tear-out pages, if the there are stubs that re retained in the book that is even better because it will give you a souvenir.
2. Write on every page "This voucher entitles the holder to .......... it is non exchangeable and no transferable"
3. Now comes the fun part ... time to fill in the blanks. What are you going to do for your partner? This is also why a homemade book of vouchers is better than a bought one. You know exactly what will make them happy, what they would like to do.

Ideas for things to offer on the vouchers. Try to divide them between sexy things that will please them and every day mundane but helpful things for example:

• A sensual massage
• An evening babysitting
• Adventurous sex
• Washing the dishes

It is best to establish some ground rules as to how the vouchers are redeemed and write them on the first page of the book. This sounds a but pedantic and you might think it will ruin the magic, however if you don't do this and later on fail to honour a voucher that could leave bad feelings.

I know that chocolates are not exactly an original gift but by making them yourself you are adding a bit of love to the mix that no expensive imported luxury can compete with.

This recipe for chocolate truffles is as good as it gets, there are only really three ingredients

• Chocolate
• Cream
• Butter

The secret to making them special is to use good quality chocolate. The recipe calls for 250g of chocolate but I would halve that and use the mist expensive dark chocolate I can afford. The cocoa content should be 70% or greater.

Loosely wrap them in baking parchment before putting into a box this helps stop them sticking together and makes them look handmade. They are best at a cool but not cold temperature so take them out of the fridge for 10minutes before serving.

This is only for those that feel confident but if it hits all the right notes and will make a Valentines day to remember.

• Choose your clothes in advance. Maybe buy something new it will be a gift to both of you!
  
• Place two chairs facing each other in a room
  
• Dim the lights and put on some sexy music
  
• Make your partner sit in the room facing an empty chair
• They will probably have guessed what is about to happen but keep it a secret anyway, it's all part of the game
  
• Stay in character wearing a hat with a brim to hide behind will help, so will the dim lights. If you are lit up and your partner is in shadows this will also help you lose yourself in the moment.
• How and when it ends is up to you ... but don't rush it.
  

This hub which introduces beginners to the idea of using a pole dancing pole for sexy strip might be worth checking out for ideas.

If you are planning on buying a stipper pole for a sexy strip then there are really two types to choose from, a Peekaboo pole which is very cheap but not really suited for anything more than walking around or an X Pole which is strong enough to cope with some very athletic moves (if you feel up to them!)